There are only a few places where I have stayed for longer than 3 months, and I have to call all these three places home, one where I spent most of my life, one where I am expected to spend the rest of my life and one where I want to make a life. And so far the process has been hard, navigating people’s expectations and my own expectations, as well as struggling to make this new life work for myself. This piece attempts to piece together my hope to make a life for myself and my wish for others to understand my place as an immigrant. |