{"id":474,"date":"2016-10-20T12:45:11","date_gmt":"2016-10-20T12:45:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wp.lancs.ac.uk\/studyabroad\/?p=474"},"modified":"2016-10-20T12:45:11","modified_gmt":"2016-10-20T12:45:11","slug":"the-journey-begins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wp.lancs.ac.uk\/studyabroad\/2016\/10\/20\/the-journey-begins\/","title":{"rendered":"The Journey Begins"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eleanor Roosevelt once said \u201cDo one thing a day which scares you<\/em>\u201d, and recently, this has resonated with me more than ever. Since leaving the UK a few weeks ago to start my Study Abroad adventure, I have had to do multiple things which scared the hell out of me, but I survived and I am still surviving \u2013 even if I\u2019m not quite sure how. Given that studying abroad has always been something I wanted to do (hence why I chose to come to Lancaster), from the moment I arrived it seemed like all of my focus was geared towards spending my second year in another country. And, as of such, I sort of forgot to think about what would happen afterwards<\/em>. As an example, somehow the fact that I would have to make the journey from England to Canada alone was something I never contemplated until it actually happened. It made me think about how, during the build-up to going on exchange, there are a lot of things you forget about, and then when you remember them it can sometimes be a little scary. This piece is about how it\u2019s okay to be caught off-guard by certain things \u2013 especially emotions you weren\u2019t expecting to have \u2013 and how at the end of the day, it\u2019s just another part of the experience.<\/p>\n

For some reason, I never thought that I would be struck quite so emotionally. I\u2019m not really the sort of person who wears their heart on their sleeve \u2013 at least, not when I\u2019m in public and surrounded by strangers. And besides, for the past six months or so, the fact that I\u2019m spending my second year of university abroad in the beautiful city of Montr\u00e9al, was a source of excitement. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 there were always nerves \u2013 but when I imagined the moment I finally said goodbye to my parents at the gates to airport security, I always envisioned myself striding stoically off into the distance, ready to meet adventure head-on.<\/p>\n

So when instead my mum and dad turned to hug me for the last time, and I felt the tell-tale sting of tears behind my eyes, a part of me was shocked. The other part of me \u2013 the bigger part \u2013 was terrified. In those moments as I walked away, I suddenly found myself wondering if perhaps I was making a huge mistake. Thoughts such as \u201cwhat the hell am I doing?<\/em>\u201d followed swiftly by \u201cI can\u2019t do this!<\/em>\u201d ricocheted around my brain in such chaotic fashion that I\u2019m still surprised I managed to make it through Heathrow Security without any mishaps.<\/p>\n

Now, this doesn\u2019t sound like a promising start, and probably makes this post sound somewhat depressing, which is possibly why no one ever mentions this side of going on exchange \u2013 the side which involves frantic nerves, copious amounts of stress and a healthy dose of anxiety (in some cases). But also because, even though it doesn\u2019t always feel like it, this feeling of being stuck at a loose end with no idea what you\u2019re doing, where you\u2019re going or how you\u2019re going to survive the next few days (let alone an entire academic year) is not permanent. As soon as I was through Security, and found myself staring out over the labyrinth that is Heathrow Terminal 5, I realised that I couldn\u2019t afford to panic. Switching off and going to find a corner to rock in wasn\u2019t an option; there were things which needed to be done, such as finding out which gate my flight was boarding from. And, since then, I\u2019ve found myself falling into a very similar pattern. If I only focus on what is immediately in front of me, whether that\u2019s the whole day or just a certain part of it, everything suddenly seems a lot less daunting. As soon as I let myself start thinking about all of the things I need to do over the next couple of weeks and worrying over how I\u2019m going to do them, that same panic starts to set in. And, once it has, it can be quite difficult to shake off.<\/p>\n

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In short, what I\u2019m trying to say is that feeling scared is not a bad thing. It\u2019s what you do with that fear, and whether or not you let it control you, that matters the most. I didn\u2019t think that I would get emotional saying goodbye to my parents, and the fact that I did genuinely concerned me, as it made me question whether or not I was going to be able to cope being on the other side of the Atlantic to them for nine months. But though I had my fears, I didn\u2019t let them stop me, and now here I am, sat in my new apartment in Downtown Montreal, ready to start my adventure at McGill University. So, yes, Study Abroad is an intimidating experience \u2013 especially in the beginning. And I don\u2019t expect that to suddenly change overnight. But so long as I keep pushing forwards, and I don\u2019t let my fears and my worries get the better of me, then I have every faith that I\u2019ll make it through these next nine months, and quite possibly be all the better for it once my exchange is over. Because it\u2019s okay to be scared. Being scared just means you\u2019re about to do something brave.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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